How to Attract Love
When I write about "how to attract women" or "how to attract men", that's a lot easier to nail down than "how to attract love". One is about meeting people of the other sex who are going to be attracted to you. But meeting the love of your life is about attracting not just a person who is attracted to you, but the kind of person you are going to be passionate about and fulfill you.
Attracting Love Into Your Life
These are two different types of instruction for attracting love into your life. One involves improving your skills of attraction, while the other involves attracting others, but also knowing oneself enough to know "what we want". So attracting love involves a certain amount of introspection, too.
Be a Lovable Person
Let's get this out of the way from the start: be the type of person whom other people can love. That is, be a person who inspires respect and love in others. Read our article on attraction to get some idea of this type of person, though it goes further than simple attraction.
Be a good communicator. Be a good listener. Be emotionally and mentally stable, and inspire emotional and mental stability in others. Be someone others can talk to.
Further than that, be fun to be around. Enjoy live and bring energy to life. Be a source of energy for others. In other words, be a positive force.
Have a Goal in Love
Now that you're a person worth loving, decide what kind of person you're going to love and what type of person is going to bring your life fulfillment. Know what you want.
Write down notes on the exact traits you would like in a perfect mate. Make a list of things you want him or her to have. Make a list of traits you don't want them to have.
The person you come to love might not exactly fit that character sketch, but they should resemble it.
As someone once said, we respect perfection, but we love imperfection. So you're making a list of the traits that we admire most and seek most in others. You're searching for a "worthy" love partner. But even if your spouse doesn't eventually fit all these traits, their uniqueness might make you love them all the more, despite their flaws.
Have Confidence - Put It on the Line
Now that you know what you want and you know how to attract others, it's time to go out and find your dream.
Be available. Show no fear of rejection. Don't send off negative symbols in your body language. Be attractive and show you're willing to accept others.
When you do meet the person of your dreams, go to the wall for your dream. Don't leave anything in reserve. Give everything you can give. People are attracted to someone with strong beliefs and strong convictions, so be strong in your love. Belief in love.
Love Attraction
Those are the basics of love & attraction. Love is going to make your life more rewarding and meaningful. People in love are always going to face challenges, but they have someone in their corner who give them strength and energy when they aren't their strongest.